I hadn't really thought to ask for resources in the forum so I also went with Amazon, and, yes, had good results finding long skirts and dresses. But I was already part of a parish where long skirts and dresses, veils and hats are commonly and widely worn at least for Mass anyway so even before I applied to the Third Order (even before I knew about this Third Order), I had to figure something out and then started getting used to it, at least as the norm for Sunday. Also, for wet weather, and with often having to be outside, I've ordered a couple of long raincoats. They should be arriving soon, and then I'll have to see how long they really are when they get here. I'm not sure it's ever been required of female Third Order members to keep their heads covered outside of attendance in church, whether for Mass, Adoration, or something else. But it's not in our rule and I haven't heard about it in our meetings either.